IA Genderformfuck.

Forms suck if you don’t live in a black & white world, but this IA student has decided to take on the binary, one form at a time.

stef shuster recalls the frustration experienced when filling out the Institutional Review Board (IRB) application to conduct graduate research.

“It was very formulaic, and so many of the questions were constructed in a binary way,” says the 29-year-old University of Iowa doctoral student in sociology who is conducting research on transgender communities and identities—and whose name is intentionally lowercase.

So when the form asked what percentage of the human subjects shuster interviewed were female or male, shuster was stumped.

“How do I fill that out when some of the people whom I interviewed identified as neither?” shuster says. “Life is full of nuance, ambiguity, and complexity.”

shuster understands there are more than two genders. While many people can only think in binary terms of boy or girl, black or white, shuster explains there are infinite ways for human beings to express gender that have nothing to do with one’s anatomical makeup. And it’s not just IRB forms that pose a challenge.

“Every form I fill out forces me to identify as either male or female,” says shuster, who identifies as neither. “I’m trans-identified, which means that I don’t limit or define who I am by gender. So on the last U.S. Census form, I hand-scrawled in and marked my own little transgender box.”

Yet much of the world forces shuster to do just that—medical forms, bathrooms, job applications. And salutations such as “Ladies and gentlemen” leave shuster feeling excluded, invisible.

As I mention in my talks: being able to choose more than one would be useful too. I’d prefer “female” + “other”, and my partner might choose “female” + “trans” (if, and only if, her transness was relevant to the form at hand. Most times it isn’t.)

 

Call for WI Trans Resources

I am currently looking to compile a few WI resources for trans people. You can leave them in the comments, or email me with them at helenboyd(at)myhusbandbetty(dot)com.

Things I’d like to see:

  • Trans friendly/educated doctors, therapists, & other professionals
  • Local support group listings
  • Organizations that work on trans issues

Etc.

Dutiful Daughter?

“It is the lesbian in us who drives us to feel imaginatively, render in language, grasp, the full connection between woman and woman. it is the lesbian in us who is creative, for the dutiful daughter of the fathers in us is only a hack.”
–Adrienne Rich

Semper Fi: The Murder of Kenneth Chamberlain Sr.

I haven’t said anything about Trayvon Martin on this blog. I’ve been so saddened by it, by the fear and frustration and sadness I see in the eyes and posts of my friends who are raising children of color.

But yesterday, I read this Guardian piece about the execution of Kenneth Chamberlain Sr. by White Plains police.

And I don’t know what to say, or think. Blood on our hands, all of us, especially white people who don’t continue to do the work of making sure our institutions aren’t racist.

My heart goes out to the Chamberlain family, and I feel the need at least to say: Semper Fi. My dad was a marine too, and I feel very thankful that he raised me to respect all kinds of people, but especially those who are marginalized and criminalized by our culture for no reason but their skin color or religion or immigration status.

Kym Worthy’s Noteworthy Goal

Kym Worthy – that’s a name out of a superhero comic in itself, isn’t it? – is Detroit’s prosecutor and she’s trying to get 11,000 rape kits that have never been processed by the Detroit police into the system in hopes of solving some of these crimes.

Today Worthy is a prosecutor in Detroit, with a much different perspective. Her decision not to report the crime, she says, was “all justification and rationalization.” Now she is on a singular mission: seeking justice for people who do report their rapes. She’s leading a charge to get more than 11,000 police rape kits—which contain swabs of semen, saliva, and other evidence—tested for DNA in her city, and to establish a road map for other U.S. cities to do the same. In Detroit the kits had piled up, ignored for years, in a police storage facility, until one of Worthy’s colleagues discovered them in 2009.

11,000.

And that’s the women who came forward.

Another article discusses how exactly these rape kits work in helping get rapists prosecuted:

While the DNA test results identified assailants in stranger-rape cases, they also created leads in cases that police and prosecutors were not expecting. For example, prosecutors told me of tying the same assailant to multiple acquaintance-rape cases that might otherwise have been difficult to move through the criminal-justice system. Said one, “We had an assailant who raped drug addicts coming to him to buy drugs. These are women who may be particularly vulnerable to rape because of their addictions or their socioeconomic status, but whose cases are hard to get a jury to believe. But when we could connect the same guy to a number of rapes, we could get a conviction.”

One of the reasons they don’t get processed is because so often women know the rapist, and so police have found doing the rape kit redundant – they already know who the suspect is.

A rape arrest rate that hasn’t changed since the late 1970s is a national travesty. Imagine anything else having stayed the same in that 40 years: no cell phones, computers, or cable TV, for starters.

Anti Choice Except When It’s Mine

To follow up on yesterday’s post, here’s an article by Joyce Arthur about how even anti-choice activists have abortions.


Many anti-choice women are convinced that their need for abortion is unique — not like those “other” women — even though they have abortions for the same sorts of reasons. Anti-choice women often expect special treatment from clinic staff. Some demand an abortion immediately, wanting to skip important preliminaries such as taking a history or waiting for blood test results. Frequently, anti-abortion women will refuse counseling (such women are generally turned away or referred to an outside counselor because counseling at clinics is mandatory). Some women insist on sneaking in the back door and hiding in a room away from other patients. Others refuse to sit in the waiting room with women they call “sluts” and “trash.” Or if they do, they get angry when other patients in the waiting room talk or laugh, because it proves to them that women get abortions casually, for “convenience”.

It’s worth reading, especially if you are anti-choice.

My thanks to my former student Naomi Waxman for the linkage.