How do I love Dan Savage? Let me count the ways…
This column made me wonder if a married TG might use being en femme or making body mods precisely to keep their partner from wanting sex.
Because if they are the type of CDs who are already auto-sexual, or have low libidos, or don’t like the male sexual role, or can’t get off without wearing panties or fantasizing about wearing panties, this just works a little too well, doesn’t it?
The CDing kills the wife’s desire for sex, & the CD is free to be autosexual, as he really prefers it. No performance anxiety. No topping. No being the seducer. Just a wife who rants once in a while about how much she wants to have sex and doesn’t get it.
Not in a conscious, manipulative way, but more in a subconscious, pacifying kind of way.
Just a thought.
(Thanks to Andrea for the link.)