Growing Up Stupid

This study, about how Americans discourage the highest level of math genius, is far more interesting than all the ink we waste on the differences between boys’ and girls’ math skills. To me, this is the great American tradition of anti-intellectualism at its worst. My guess, of course, is that the lower you go on the socio-economic scale, the more pervasive these ideas are.

I had friends stomp on my report cards. Me and other smart working class kids weren’t exactly encouraged. I feel very lucky that my emotional needs to be smart outweighed all the discouraging influences; as with other kids from big families, being smart got me attention from my teachers, attention that was a little lacking at home. Because otherwise, being good at math came with major social stigma, and most of the young women I’ve met at colleges seem to have developed a reflexive “fuck you, I can do math” kind of attitude that keeps them safe.

That they should need it is the sore point. We celebrate athletic prowess, the people who make the top 1%, but not in intellectual arenas. Oh, this country. Maybe having an actual smart guy for president will change that & start to filter down, & kids might want to grow up to be something other than an NBA star.

De-gendering this stuff really points up actual real problems that need to be dealt with.

(h/t to Lena for sending me the article)

Tonight at WVU

I’ll be speaking at West Virginia University’s Morgantown campus tonight at 8:30 PM, so if you’re anywhere nearby, please do come, as the event is open to the public (& only an hour from Pittsburgh, if you’re wondering).

  • Place: Greenbrier Room in the Mountainlair at West Virginia University
  • When: 8:30 pm 16 Oct
  • Open to everyone – the more the merrier!
  • Sponsor: Bisexual, Gay, Lesbian and Transgender Mountaineers (BiGLTM)

change.org

I was poking around recently, trying to find out about a PSA that we’d been discussing in the mHB forums lately which is about trying to discourage kids to say “that’s so gay” when they mean “that’s not cool” when I found that the PSA is part of a larger campaign by The Ad Council & GLSEN to “think b4 you speak.” I love the idea, and not just because “that’s so gay” is unnecessarily homophobic, but because I so wish people didn’t use language so carelessly.

As a result I found change.org, which is a huge social issues/activist-oriented collection of blogs on various issues. There’s a blog on women’s rights, animal rights, global warming, immigration, and of course gay rights, which – lo & behold! – has me on its recommended reading list. How cool is that?

Great resource for us social justice types, so do go check it out.

New Column

Well go figure, but I’m writing a new relationships advice column at www.ourchart.com called Ask Big Sister. & No, I’m not actually a big sister – youngest of 6 – but I always wanted to be! This is an introductory piece, of course, so the readers there get to know who I am and what my gig is.

Since readers over there can ask me questions, of course you can too! I’d love to hear any you’ve got, especially the ones you’d like to see addressed in a column.

Trans for Obama: / blushing

A week later, the Trans for Obama campaign is still going: we’ve gotten over 300 donors and have raised nearly $14,000 for the campaign. That’s exciting! A blogger at GLAAD, Mik Kinkead, who is their Transgender Advocacy Fellow, wrote a nice piece about the campaign (and about me).

So keep spreading the word, because there are still weeks left until Election Day, & the more visible we are, the more pols care about our issues.

(h/t to Andrea James)

Drink for NOLA

My friend Sherri started a very cool non-profit organization that provides families restarting their lives after a natural disaster with the basic furnishings that make a house a home. Their goal is to transform 36 houses in New Orleans in November 2008.

So they’re having a fundraiser (like you do)

  • THURSDAY OCTOBER 16th, 2008
  • The Bar @ THE CUTTING ROOM, 19 West 24th Street
  • OPEN BAR from 8-9
  • Auction
  • Suggested donations $25 / $50 / $100 – You can donate online or at the door
  • If you can’t attend please donate to H2H

For more information, check www.HousetoHomeProject.org.