The caption was what got me: “After Dad had gender reassignment surgery, he promised he’d be the same person.”
Please, lovely trans folks, STOP saying this to your loved ones. It’s not true. The whole point of transition is to become a different person.
That doesn’t mean you won’t carry plenty of your personality over with you – you will & you should. But you will not be the same person.
If gender matters, gender matters. You wouldn’t need to transition if it didn’t, so be surprised when your loved ones miss your 1.0 self.