So Matt Lauer had an affair with a trans woman who is “related to” Whitney Houston, and a guy writes to Dan Savage to find out where he can have sex with a trans woman who isn’t a sex worker.

Really, where do you start? With anyone calling an African American woman a “soulfood side piece”?

But Dan Savage seems to be actively compensating for the times he hasn’t been as hip to trans stuff as he should have been. At least.

(thanks to DonnaT for both stories)