Big Blinking Caveats

Has everyone seen this article about girls & superheros from Thursday’s NYT? Interesting stuff.

Little girls don’t embrace superheroes as often or avidly as boys. That may in part be developmental. With the big blinking caveats that there are vast variations within — as opposed to between — the sexes and that nature is heavily influenced by nurture, research on sex and play indicates that little boys are more readily drawn to competitive, rough-and-tumble activities, while little girls (again, big blinking caveat, see above) strive for group harmony over individual dominance. Beyond that, let’s face it, the choices for girls have not exactly been compelling: who can even remember Batgirl’s secret identity? (She was Commissioner Gordon’s daughter, Barbara.)

I like her big blinking caveats myself, but I’m going to bold them, anyway.

(h/t to Sarah for sending it)

Two Tune Tuesday: Marco’s Guitar

No, “Marco’s Guitar” isn’t the name of the band; I’m talking about Marco Pirroni, long-time Ants guitarist, original Siouxie & the Banshees guitarist, & his current work with a band called The Wolfmen. The time you got to hear him and didn’t know it was probably in the Sinead O’Connor track Jump in the River, which he rocks, and of course I threw in some of the fine, fine, Ennio Morricone inspired stuff from the Ants days: Clint. Eastwood.


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How much do I wish Adam would come back just to get that guitar back? A lot.

That Wolfmen song is one of the reasons I was really holding out on Betty changing her name to Jackie. (There just are no good songs about Rachels, but plenty of good ones about Jackies, & Betty’s the kind of person you write songs about. Or books, say, if you can’t write songs.)

Getting Married

We’re with some friends today who are getting married, and with other friends, friends of friends, family of friends. It’s lovely to be around all these people celebrating the love & commitment of two fantastic people.

There are two poems that will be part of their ceremony below the break.

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Summer Wedding Clothes

Honestly, what do you wear when you’re me, for a summer wedding, when you’re doing a reading & want to feel confident & where a bunch of people will be looking at you?

I’m not the long tunic/flowing pants type. I’m not the sundress type. Everything I own is black.

Miss Thing tells me she has no appropriate sandals. I do not understand how someone can own 50 pairs of shoes & not own the right sandals (especially when she doesn’t know what dress she’s wearing yet).

On top of the rest, it may rain, which means nothing too sheer.

*sigh*

I am so bad at formal clothes.