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  2. Ok. So my significant other is a cross dresser. He didn’t tell me until after we got married, but I am slowly coming to terms with it. I even went with him to get a bra and panties, watched him order boobs and a wig online, helped him to do his makeup and let him try on one of my dresses. We made a deal though that if he did any of his dressing, he would tell me about it or wait and do it when I’m around. He has a history of cheating and after reading a lot of the other women’s stories on other message boards, it worries me that he would again… But now I have found out that he has a secret email, he’s been posting ads on craigslist, he has two tumblr accounts, and he’s even posted pics of himself in his panties with his penis sticking out, none of which has he told me about. I have asked him multiple times if he has anything he wants to try, and he tells me no, then he posts about how he wants to do things with other men on his tumblr! I just caught a glimpse one night on his phone. I don’t know what to do… I love him so much and I really need some advice here…I just don’t want to be the idiot sitting here waiting for him when he’s off doing what he’s going to do without me…. Please give me some advice.

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