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	<title>en&#124;Gender</title>
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	<description>helen boyd&#039;s journal of gender &#38; trans issues</description>
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		<title>What Damfinos Do Know</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/08/what-damfinos-do-know/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 08:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[buster keaton]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The other night on Olbermann, I caught the tail end of him telling a story about Buster Keaton &#8211; except that I didn&#8217;t hear the beginning. Luckily, I found the transcript:
First, on this date in 1895 was born actor Nigel Bruce famed as Dr.  Watson to Basil Rathbone‘s Sherlock Holmes.  But it was on the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other night on Olbermann, I caught the tail end of him telling a story about Buster Keaton &#8211; except that I didn&#8217;t hear the beginning. Luckily, <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/35263637/ns/msnbc_tv-countdown_with_keith_olbermann/" target="_blank">I found the transcript:</a></p>
<blockquote><p><em>First, on this date in 1895 was born actor Nigel Bruce famed as Dr.  Watson to Basil Rathbone‘s Sherlock Holmes.  But it was on the set of the movie “Limelight” that Bruce and co-start Norman Lloyd got to watch unmatched film history.  As star and director Charlie Chaplin filmed himself in a complicated bit of business, Bruce and Lloyd heard someone whispering “just to your left, Charlie.  Your center frame, Charlie.”</em></p>
<p><em>Finally Bruce realized it was another co-star, legendary comic Buster Keaton, whispering guidance to Chaplin.  My god, Bruce mumbled, we‘re watching Keaton direct Chaplin.</em></p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://www.busterkeaton.com/" target="_blank">A Damfino</a> (that&#8217;s what us Keaton fans are called) can not fail to remind you that Chaplin cut most of Buster&#8217;s scenes out of <em>Limelight</em>. Fucker.<em><br />
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		<title>Sims&#8217; 10th Anniversary</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/07/sims-10th-anniversary/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 06:38:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been 10 years since The Sims came out. It was the year we got engaged, &#38; it was a lovely break from the wedding planning angst for me. There&#8217;s a cool video about the game &#8211; lots of footage of the old games, interviews with creators.
It was the first game to really break the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been 10 years since The Sims came out. It was the year we got engaged, &amp; it was a lovely break from the wedding planning angst for me. There&#8217;s <a href="http://pc.ign.com/dor/objects/802129/the-sims-3/videos/sims_10yranni_spc_020110.html" target="_blank">a cool video about the game</a> &#8211; lots of footage of the old games, interviews with creators.</p>
<p>It was the first game to really break the gender barrier in terms of game sales. They called it a bunch of different things as they worked on it, including Dollhouse, which they knew would be a name that would kill all potential sales to boys; Will Wright started calling it <em>The Tactical Domestic Simulator</em>. Love that.</p>
<p>(But it really is like a dollhouse &#8211; but dolls who you build houses for in addition to changing their clothes / making up stories about them.)</p>
<p>I would also like to note that I have never figured out all the way to kill my Sims.</p>
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		<title>Political Shuffle</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/06/political-shuffle/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 06:36:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[politics & causes]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Conservative blogger Jon Henke also tweets, too, &#38; in this case, he called out the bigotry of the head of the FRC (Family Research Council):
BIGOTRY: FRC Spokesman wants to &#8220;outlaw&#8221; gay behavior. http://bit.ly/cKIYtA Does FRC really support new Jim Crow laws?
Love that. Even more interesting to me is the tagline of the blog that URL [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jonathan_Henke" target="_blank">Conservative blogger Jon Henke</a> also <a href="http://twitter.com/JonHenke" target="_blank">tweets, too</a>, &amp; in this case, he called out the bigotry of the head of the FRC (Family Research Council):</p>
<blockquote><p><em>BIGOTRY: FRC Spokesman wants to &#8220;outlaw&#8221; gay behavior. <a rel="nofollow" href="http://bit.ly/cKIYtA" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/cKIYtA</a> Does FRC really support new Jim Crow laws?</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Love that. <em>Even more interesting to me is the tagline of the blog that URL points to, which is:</em><br />
<em> </em></p>
<blockquote><p><em>I believe in the free speech that liberals used to believe in, the economic freedom that conservatives used to believe in, and the personal freedom that America used to believe in.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Which is weird, because this big ol&#8217; liberal is on the same page.</p>
<p>(Thanks, as is often the case, to Sarah.)</p>
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		<title>Poor Catherine the Great</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/05/poor-catherine-the-great/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 19:28:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bestiality porn has been banned in the Netherlands, where until recently, it was legal:
Sex with animals had been legal in the Netherlands, as long as it could be proven the animals were not injured.
&#38; How did they know that? Did they ask?

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2010/02/03/2808870.htm" target="_blank">Bestiality porn has been banned in the Netherlands,</a> where until recently, it was legal:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Sex with animals had been legal in the Netherlands, as long as it could be proven the animals were not injured.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>&amp; How did they know that? Did they ask?<em><br />
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		<title>F. Scott in Drag</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/04/f-scott-in-drag/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:21:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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Really, it&#8217;s F. Scott Fitzgerald, which makes me wonder how Zelda looked in a suit.
(Thanks to Courtney.)
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<p>Really, it&#8217;s F. Scott Fitzgerald, which makes me wonder how Zelda looked in a suit.</p>
<p>(Thanks to Courtney.)</p>
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		<title>Phonies.</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/03/phonies/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 09:51:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Apparently Caulfield was still alive to write Salinger&#8217;s obit:
&#8220;There will never be another voice like his.&#8221; Which is exactly the lousy kind of goddamn thing that people say, because really it could mean lots of things, or nothing at all even, and it&#8217;s just a perfect example of why you should never tell anybody anything.
Goddamn [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Apparently Caulfield was still alive to write Salinger&#8217;s obit:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;There will never be another voice like his.&#8221; Which is exactly the lousy kind of goddamn thing that people say, because really it could mean lots of things, or nothing at all even, and it&#8217;s just a perfect example of why you should never tell anybody anything.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Goddamn if <em>The Onion</em> didn&#8217;t nail it exactly, even if, I&#8221;m sure, a million crumby people thought of it with them.</p>
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		<title>US Tax Court Rules GID Expenses Deductible</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/02/us-tax-court-rules-gid-expenses-deductible/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 02:29:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From TaxProf Blog:
In a long-awaited decision, a fractured (8-5-3) Tax Court today ruled in O’Donnabhain v. Commissioner, 134 T.C. No. 4 (Feb. 2, 2010), that male-to-female gender reassignment surgery qualifies as a deductible medical expense under § 213, reversing the IRS&#8217;s position in Chief Counsel Advice 200603025.  The 8-judge majority held that: 

TP&#8217;s gender identity disorder [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://taxprof.typepad.com/taxprof_blog/2010/02/tax-court-gender.html" target="_blank">From TaxProf Blog</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>In a long-awaited decision, a fractured (8-5-3) Tax Court today ruled in <a href="http://www.ustaxcourt.gov/InOpTodays/ODonnabhain.TC.WPD.pdf" target="_blank">O’Donnabhain v. Commissioner</a>, 134 T.C. No. 4 (Feb. 2, 2010), that male-to-female gender reassignment surgery qualifies as a deductible medical expense under § 213, reversing the IRS&#8217;s position in <a href="http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-wd/0603025.pdf">Chief Counsel Advice 200603025</a>.  The 8-judge majority held that: </em></p>
<ul>
<li><em>TP&#8217;s gender identity disorder is a “disease” within the meaning of  § 213(d)(1)(A) &amp; (9)(B). </em></li>
<li><em>TP&#8217;s hormone therapy and sex reassignment surgery were for the treatment of disease within the meaning of  § 213(d)(1)(A) &amp; (9)(B), and thus not “cosmetic surgery” excluded from the definition of deductible “medical care” by § 213(d)(9)(A). </em></li>
<li><em>TP&#8217;s breast augmentation surgery was directed at improving her appearance did not meaningfully promote the proper function of her body or treat disease within the meaning of § 213(d)(9)(B), and thus was “cosmetic surgery” excluded from the definition of deductible “medical care” by § 213(d)(9)(A). </em></li>
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<p><em>Judge Gale wrote the 69-page majority opinion, joined by Judges Cohen, Colvin. Marvel, Morrison, Paris, Thornton, and Wherry.  Judge Halperin (12 pages), Judge Holmes (joined by Judge Goeke) (23 pages), and Judge Goeke (joined by Judge Holmes) (6 pages) wrote separate concurring opinions.  Judge Foley (joined by Judges Gustafson, Kroupa, Vasquez, and Wells) (8 pages) and Judge Gustafson (joined by Judges Foley, Kroupa, Vasquez, and Wells) (21 pages) wrote separate opinions concurring in part and dissenting in part.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>Amazing news. GLAD is having a community conference call with the attorneys who worked on the case, <a href="http://campaign.constantcontact.com/render?v=001dsGnuBrFqEE4mTAeA3V2DM5AxLW2-C_hZ5ZcHDtj9lsQRWEL4KmiNufbX80HTALSYPeGtiKzscX018MRGy9_EtoV_SWRyUs3InnS6T4sJh3bmP2GBzj_9C_xjM0e-0dENLTCb0ts5LBq3iqp2g7Hsoi6o1SidZGdS2LCAF9gq4X02ld8e6bvitFCv7EV5GpDkjkJ-u6SRfYjkhjOqbLT5G-hT3wGSyXkOEL82n0A5NuXu2UVO5R_XyJvFTgfVvYVNC-LkAFShew%3D" target="_blank">and NCTE is supporting the call.</a> For more info on how to participate, check after the break.</p>
<p><em><span id="more-9789"></span></em>If you are interested in hearing more about the case from the actual attorneys who worked on it, please join us for the call.</p>
<p>Toll Free Dial-In Number: 1-800-704-9804<br />
Participant Code(s):   61898641#</p>
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		<title>Two Tune Tuesday: The Other Grammys</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/02/two-tune-tuesday-the-other-grammys/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 06:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve all heard the Lady Gaga to death by now, no? Even if &#8220;Bad Romance&#8221; did spawn one of the best names of an FB group, it&#8217;s time for some of the other cool stuff that was nominated or won Grammys last night:


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;ve all heard the Lady Gaga to death by now, no? Even if &#8220;Bad Romance&#8221; did spawn <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/La-Loi-Gaga-RAH2-AH3-RO-MA-MAMA-GA2-OOHLA2-Bad-Romance/269667575863?ref=search&amp;sid=739845774.212461101..1" target="_blank">one of the best names of an FB group</a>, it&#8217;s time for some of the other cool stuff that was nominated or won <a href="http://www.grammy.com/nominees?category=All" target="_blank">Grammys</a> last night:</p>
<p><img style="visibility: hidden; width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="http://counters.gigya.com/wildfire/IMP/CXNID=2000002.0NXC/bT*xJmx*PTEyNjUwMDQ5NTQzNDQmcHQ9MTI2NTAwNDk2MzM*NCZwPTY5NDMwMSZkPSZnPTEmbz*wZWQzMjQxNGZiYzM*MjcxOTVl/YTAzMjY5YmIxZWE4YyZvZj*w.gif" border="0" alt="" width="0" height="0" /></p>
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		<title>NYC Carry</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/02/01/nyc-carry/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 06:46:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This guy&#8217;s trip &#8211; being carried entirely by volunteers from one end of Manhattan to the other &#8211; is no surprise to me. Eh, homesick: I hate it. But keep up the good work, NYers. I am kinda curious what neighborhood he got through fastest (&#38; my guess is the Upper West Side, full of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.wimp.com/manhattenvolunteers/" target="_blank">This guy&#8217;s trip &#8211; being carried entirely by volunteers from one end of Manhattan to the other</a> &#8211; is no surprise to me. Eh, homesick: I hate it. But keep up the good work, NYers. I am kinda curious what neighborhood he got through fastest (&amp; my guess is the Upper West Side, full of guilty liberals). For the record: I would have said yes.</p>
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		<title>17-B-HSD</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/01/31/17-b-hsd/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 18:17:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[gender]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Whenever I read an article like this one, after I stop being annoyed by the use of the old &#8220;hermaphrodite&#8221; term &#8211; especially when they entirely fail to mention that intersex took its place a long while back &#8211; I always have one question: what is with the desire to &#8220;fix&#8221; something like this condition? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whenever I read <a href="http://jezebel.com/5428935/male-pseudohermaphrodism-mouse-ovaries-and-the-science-of-sex-and-gender" target="_blank">an article like this one</a>, after I stop being annoyed by the use of the old &#8220;hermaphrodite&#8221; term &#8211; especially when they entirely fail to mention that intersex took its place a long while back &#8211; I always have one question: what is with the desire to &#8220;fix&#8221; something like this condition? While the experience for the individuals in question is no doubt perplexing, does it have to be stigmatized, too?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m thinking of an alternate, holistic way of how we might deal with genders like these:</p>
<ol>
<li>come up with a term for &#8220;girls who grow up to be men&#8221;</li>
<li>create <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coming_of_age#Cultural_rituals_exclusive_to_nations" target="_blank">a coming-of-age ritual</a>, something akin to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quincea%C3%B1era" target="_blank">Quinceañera</a> or Confirmation or Bat Mitzvah, or even <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secular_coming_of_age_ceremony" target="_blank">some secular version</a></li>
<li>establish bureaucratic protocols for the individuals in question</li>
<li>instead of copping a &#8220;wow, nature can really fuck up&#8221; attitude, try a &#8220;what amazing natural variation is possible&#8221; instead.</li>
<li>stop repeating the bullshit about how they need<a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/meast/12/17/gaza.gender.id/index.html?eref=rss_health&amp;utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+rss%2Fcnn_health+%28RSS%3A+Health%29" target="_blank"> &#8220;complicated sex change surgery to live normal lives&#8221; </a></li>
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<p>That is, recognize them as a gender, acknowledge that all paths to adulthood are not the same, that penises are swell but not everything, &amp; let them get on with their lives.</p>
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