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	<title>en&#124;Gender</title>
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		<title>Komen News: Not So Fast</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/03/komen-news-not-so-fast/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 18:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[feminism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[choice]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[planned parenthood]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Yay, everyone&#8217;s happy Komen changed their decision. But I am a cynical, suspicious type, and I read their statement, which says: &#8220;We will continue to fund existing grants, including those of Planned Parenthood, and preserve their &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/03/komen-news-not-so-fast/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay, everyone&#8217;s happy <a href="https://seamus.npr.org/blogs/health/2012/02/03/146344674/in-reversal-komen-reinstates-funding-for-planned-parenthood?sc=nl&#038;cc=brk-20120203-1139Our">Komen changed their decision</a>. But I am a cynical, suspicious type, and I read their statement, which says:</p>
<p>&#8220;We will continue to fund existing grants, including those of Planned Parenthood, and preserve their eligibility to apply for future grants, while maintaining the ability of our affiliates to make funding decisions that meet the needs of their communities.&#8221;</p>
<p>That last bit, the &#8220;while maintaining the ability of our affiliates to make funding decisions&#8221; just left a back door, wide, wide open. By which I mean, Komen just figured out a way to say, the next time they don&#8217;t fund Planned Parenthood, that their FUNDERS choose not to. And if they tend toward finding funders that are more conservative &#8211; which this current Director of Komen seems likely to do, Komen will have found an official way not to fund Planned Parenthood and to Pass the buck. </p>
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		<title>&#8220;I would never do anything like that.&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/03/i-would-never-do-anything-like-that/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 07:24:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[LGBTQ]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I made it to page 9 of this New Yorker article about Tyler Clementi and Dharun Ravi and stopped reading. It was so sad, so difficult to read. I did finish it later, and it&#8217;s still &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/03/i-would-never-do-anything-like-that/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I made it to <a href="http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2012/02/06/120206fa_fact_parker?currentPage=9">page 9</a> of <a href="http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2012/02/06/120206fa_fact_parker?currentPage=1">this <em>New Yorker</em> article about Tyler Clementi and Dharun Ravi</a> and stopped reading. It was so sad, so difficult to read. I did finish it later, and it&#8217;s still so fucking sad.</p>
<p>What a waste. </p>
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		<title>Seven + D.C.</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/02/seven-d-c/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 07:38:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[LGBTQ]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/?p=12807</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Washington state&#8217;s Senate just passed a bill to make same sex marriage legal. It&#8217;s expected to pass all the way through to the Governor&#8217;s office, who is expected to sign it. Washington will mean that seven &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/02/seven-d-c/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/02/02/us-gay-marriage-washington-idUSTRE81109E20120202">Washington state&#8217;s Senate just passed a bill to make same sex marriage legal.</a> It&#8217;s expected to pass all the way through to the Governor&#8217;s office, who is expected to sign it.</p>
<p>Washington will mean that seven states and D.C. have made it legal, folks. (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Map_of_US_Suffrage,_1920.svg">Only 16 states had full suffrage for women</a> before the Federal Government gave women the right to vote, and I don&#8217;t think there will be even that many before same sex marriage becomes legalized on the national level.)</p>
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		<title>Scott Walker Better Drive Her to the Polls Himself</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/02/scott-walker-better-drive-her-to-the-polls-his-damn-self/</link>
		<comments>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/02/scott-walker-better-drive-her-to-the-polls-his-damn-self/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 05:39:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[politics & causes]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know about the rest of you, but this actually made me cry. Voter suppression is disenfranchisement, and disenfranchisement is criminal. This is not the America anyone should stand for.]]></description>
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<p>I don&#8217;t know about the rest of you, but this actually made me cry. Voter suppression is disenfranchisement, and disenfranchisement is criminal. </p>
<p>This is not the America anyone should stand for.</p>
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		<title>Sliding Scales</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/02/01/sliding-scales/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[gender]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[&#160;]]></description>
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		<title>Two Tune Tuesday: Passer Guitaruus Est</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/31/passer-guitaruus-est/</link>
		<comments>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/31/passer-guitaruus-est/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 05:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[music]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Josh Williams was performing the song &#8220;Mordecai&#8221; at a Bluegrass festival this past May 5th when he had a little visitor. Check it, around 1:30, and watch to the end. Gorgeous.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Josh Williams was performing the song &#8220;Mordecai&#8221; at a Bluegrass festival this past May 5th when he had a little visitor. Check it, around 1:30, and watch to the end.</p>
<p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/7vBo0ptYJNs" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p>Gorgeous. </p>
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		<title>Humans of New York</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/30/humans-of-new-york/</link>
		<comments>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/30/humans-of-new-york/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 02:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite blogs &#8211; especially now that I live in Wisconsin &#8211; is Humans of New York, which is a project that&#8217;s a little bit like a photographic census. Not only does it consist &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/30/humans-of-new-york/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my favorite blogs &#8211; especially now that I live in Wisconsin &#8211; is Humans of New York, which is a project that&#8217;s<a href="http://www.humansofnewyork.com/project/"> a little bit like a photographic census</a>. Not only does it consist of <a href="http://www.humansofnewyork.com/featured-humans/">great photos of people in New York</a>, but there&#8217;s <a href="http://www.humansofnewyork.com/the-map/">an interactive map</a> for where they were taken, too.</p>
<p>This is one of my favorites. It&#8217;s called &#8220;bike.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>HUD: Equal Access to Housing Rule Trans-Inclusive</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/29/hud-equal-access-to-housing-rule-trans-inclusive/</link>
		<comments>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/29/hud-equal-access-to-housing-rule-trans-inclusive/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 19:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[LGBTQ]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow. Housing non-discrimination for trans people? Really? What amazing news. Via NCTE: “I am proud to announce a new Equal Access to Housing Rule that says clearly and unequivocally that LGBT individuals and couples have the &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/29/hud-equal-access-to-housing-rule-trans-inclusive/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. Housing non-discrimination for trans people? Really? What amazing news. <a href="http://transgenderequality.wordpress.com/2012/01/28/breaking-new-rule-makes-trans-housing-discrimination-illegal/">Via NCTE</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>“I am proud to announce a new Equal Access to Housing Rule that says clearly and unequivocally that LGBT individuals and couples have the right to live where they choose [...] If you are denying HUD housing to people on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, actual or perceived, you’re discriminating, you’re breaking the law, and you will be held accountable. That’s what equal access means, and that’s what this rule is going to do.”</p>
<p>The new rule makes several urgently needed changes to current federal housing and housing-related programs including: prohibiting owners and operators of federally-funded or federally-insured housing, as well as lenders offering federally-insured mortgages from discriminating based on gender identity or sexual orientation;and clarifying the definition of “family” to ensure that LGBT families are not excluded from HUD programs.</em></p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://transgenderequality.wordpress.com/2012/01/28/breaking-new-rule-makes-trans-housing-discrimination-illegal/">Read the whole article.</a> Honestly, when i first started doing advocacy around trans issues, I didn&#8217;t expect to see these kinds of rules put in place by 2012. </p>
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		<title>How to Say &#8216;Panties&#8217;</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/28/how-to-say-panties/</link>
		<comments>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/28/how-to-say-panties/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 05:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[(There are some other really great ones, like coccyx, synechdoche, and carpe diem.)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/59oLURcPNo0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p>(There are some other really great ones, like <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5i0i_JLhVCE&#038;feature=related">coccyx</a>, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-n1vGeVIXo">synechdoche</a>, and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nd4fR3VkqwY">carpe diem</a>.)</p>
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		<title>RIP Juan Epstein</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/27/rip-juan-epstein/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 05:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know if anyone else has said it, but I thought Juan Epstein was hot. Either way, the actor Robert Hegyes, who played him, died at the age of 60. So here&#8217;s a clip of &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/27/rip-juan-epstein/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if anyone else has said it, but I thought Juan Epstein was hot. Either way, the actor Robert Hegyes, who played him, died at the age of 60. <a href="http://youtu.be/wqw1RC3d1d0">So here&#8217;s a clip of Kotter&#8217;s first day back at Buchanan High.<br />
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<p>A friend of mine posted this on Facebook:</p>
<p><em>Dear Mr. Kotter,<br />
Epstein was not able to turn in his history assignment on account of he&#8217;s dead.<br />
Sincerely,<br />
Epstein&#8217;s mother</em></p>
<p>Which is nearly horrible yet somehow perfect. </p>
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