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	<title>en&#124;Gender &#187; media</title>
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		<title>Humans of New York</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/30/humans-of-new-york/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 02:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite blogs &#8211; especially now that I live in Wisconsin &#8211; is Humans of New York, which is a project that&#8217;s a little bit like a photographic census. Not only does it consist &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/30/humans-of-new-york/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my favorite blogs &#8211; especially now that I live in Wisconsin &#8211; is Humans of New York, which is a project that&#8217;s<a href="http://www.humansofnewyork.com/project/"> a little bit like a photographic census</a>. Not only does it consist of <a href="http://www.humansofnewyork.com/featured-humans/">great photos of people in New York</a>, but there&#8217;s <a href="http://www.humansofnewyork.com/the-map/">an interactive map</a> for where they were taken, too.</p>
<p>This is one of my favorites. It&#8217;s called &#8220;bike.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>RIP Juan Epstein</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/27/rip-juan-epstein/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 05:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know if anyone else has said it, but I thought Juan Epstein was hot. Either way, the actor Robert Hegyes, who played him, died at the age of 60. So here&#8217;s a clip of &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/27/rip-juan-epstein/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if anyone else has said it, but I thought Juan Epstein was hot. Either way, the actor Robert Hegyes, who played him, died at the age of 60. <a href="http://youtu.be/wqw1RC3d1d0">So here&#8217;s a clip of Kotter&#8217;s first day back at Buchanan High.<br />
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<p>A friend of mine posted this on Facebook:</p>
<p><em>Dear Mr. Kotter,<br />
Epstein was not able to turn in his history assignment on account of he&#8217;s dead.<br />
Sincerely,<br />
Epstein&#8217;s mother</em></p>
<p>Which is nearly horrible yet somehow perfect. </p>
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		<title>100 Trans Blogs</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/20/100-trans-blogs/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 06:40:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sugar and Slugs put together a list of 100 trans-related blogs; not all of them are primarily dedicated to trans issues, but still, this is pretty amazing. I think there were three when I started, &#038; &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/20/100-trans-blogs/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sugar and Slugs put together <a href="http://sugarandslugs.wordpress.com/2010/01/11/100-t-blogs/">a list of 100 trans-related blogs</a>; not all of them are primarily dedicated to trans issues, but still, this is pretty amazing.</p>
<p>I think there were three when I started, &#038; I&#8217;m not sure any of those are still online/active.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Work It&#8221; Cancelled</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/14/work-it-cancelled/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2012 16:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ABC Cancels “Work It” After Two Episodes Los Angeles, CA, January 14, 2012 &#8211; Today ABC announced that the series “Work It” has been cancelled after two episodes. GLAAD and lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/14/work-it-cancelled/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>ABC Cancels “Work It” After Two Episodes</strong></p>
<p>Los Angeles, CA, January 14, 2012 &#8211; Today ABC announced that the series “Work It” has been cancelled after two episodes. GLAAD and lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) advocacy organizations including the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) had spoken out against the series for its potential to cause harm to transgender people. The series debuted on January 3, 2012 to low ratings, and, according to Entertainment Weekly, dropped another 20 percent this week.</p>
<p>“While many of ABC’s positive and groundbreaking portrayals of LGBT people have been critical and popular successes, the public had little interest in this outdated show,” said Herndon Graddick, Senior Director of Programs and Communications at GLAAD. “As a result of this campaign, an important dialogue has been started in Hollywood and mainstream media about the real discrimination faced by transgender people today.”</p>
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<p>Last month, after viewing the pilot, GLAAD placed a full page ad in media industry publication <em>Variety</em> with HRC. The organizations also published a joint opinion piece on the Huffington Post. The <em>Variety </em>ad noted that “by encouraging the audience to laugh at the characters’ attempts at womanhood, the show gives license to similar treatment of transgender women.”</p>
<p>GLAAD and HRC included photos of transgender Americans, legal facts and statistics from a <a href="http://transequality.org/Resources/NCTE_prelim_survey_econ.pdf">recent report</a> from the National Center for Transgender Equality and the National Gay &amp; Lesbian Task Force on the discrimination that transgender Americans face:</p>
<ul>
<li>Transgender Americans can be legally fired in 34 states      today simply for being who they are.</li>
<li>97% of self-identified transgender people reported      being harassed or abused at work.</li>
<li>26% reported losing their jobs because they are      transgender.</li>
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<p>GLAAD stated on its site that while the show did not explicitly address transgender people, many viewers unfamiliar with the realities of being transgender will still make the connection.</p>
<p>Previously the San Francisco LGBT Community Center, transgender writers including Autumn Sandeen of Pam’s House Blend, the Transgender Economic Empowerment Initiative and the Transgender Law Center spoke out against the show’s promos. Women’s advocacy groups and members of the Puerto Rican community have also criticized the show’s premise and jokes.</p>
<p>According to ABC, ‘Work It’ centered on two unemployed men who have &#8220;learned the hard way that the current recession is more of a &#8216;man-cession&#8217; and their skills aren&#8217;t in high demand.&#8221; One finds out that a pharmaceuticals company is hiring sales reps, but only female sales reps. He goes to the interview dressed in heels, a skirt, and makeup and gets hired as a woman.</p>
<p>For more about GLAAD’s campaign and to read critiques from LGBT advocates and organizations visit <a href="http://www.glaad.org/workit">www.glaad.org/workit</a>.</p>
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		<title>Shit Cis People Say to Trans People</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/10/shit-cis-people-say-to-trans-people/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 19:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You knew it was coming: &#8220;You transgenders are so inspiring&#8221; is probably my fave. That said: we have had plenty, PLENTY of trans women ask us if my partner has had &#8220;the surgery&#8221;, how we have &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2012/01/10/shit-cis-people-say-to-trans-people/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You knew it was coming:</p>
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<p>&#8220;You transgenders are so inspiring&#8221; is probably my fave.</p>
<p>That said: we have had plenty, PLENTY of trans women ask us if my partner has had &#8220;the surgery&#8221;, how we have sex exactly, and whether she is gay, was gay, and whether or not I was/am/have become a lesbian.</p>
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		<title>Shit Women Say</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/12/16/shit-women-say/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 05:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love it, but I have my moments of being a misogynist asshole. That said, I also really can&#8217;t stand the way women behave sometimes, because so much of that bullshit is a put-on. That is, &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/12/16/shit-women-say/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love it, but I have my moments of being a misogynist asshole. That said, I also really can&#8217;t stand the way women behave sometimes, because so much of that bullshit is a put-on. That is, if only girls said these things, they wouldn&#8217;t annoy me, but when grown women squeal something like &#8220;twinsies&#8221; it really does make me ill. But there are plenty in here I&#8217;m guilty of, too:</p>
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<p>And I love Juliette Lewis. </p>
<p><a href="http://andrewsullivan.thedailybeast.com/2011/12/shit-girls-say.html">Via Andrew Sullivan.</a></p>
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		<title>UK: &#8220;My Transsexual Summer&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/11/08/uk-my-transsexual-summer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 18:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been name-checked in The Guardian for the Trans Documentary Drinking Game. Hysterical. Thanks to all who contributed to that list way back when. Sad to say, things haven&#8217;t really gotten much better &#8211; only slightly. &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/11/08/uk-my-transsexual-summer/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2011/nov/07/my-transsexual-summer-channel-4?fb=native&#038;CMP=FBCNETTXT9038">I&#8217;ve been name-checked in <em>The Guardian</em></a> for <a href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2009/07/20/trans-documentary-drinking-game/">the Trans Documentary Drinking Game</a>. Hysterical. Thanks to all who contributed to that list way back when.</p>
<p>Sad to say, things haven&#8217;t really gotten much better &#8211; only slightly. UK readers, I&#8217;d love to hear what you think of this one.</p>
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		<title>She Made This.</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/11/03/she-made-this/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 05:20:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So this is what the person you all know as Betty does these days &#8211; she made it all herself, including writing the music. It should give some of you a better idea what we do &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/11/03/she-made-this/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>So this is what the person you all know as Betty does these days &#8211; she made it all herself, including writing the music. It should give some of you a better idea what we do here, &#038; why we are here in the first place &#8211; Lawrence is a pretty cool place.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m about 6 minutes in, talking about synthesis &#038; disciplines &#038; double majors. </p>
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		<title>The Bechdel Test</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/10/09/the-bechdel-test/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2011 05:17:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article on women characters in movies &#8211; skip to the end &#8211; is very funny. I think her Ethereal Weirdo is my favorite, although I will admit to having women like her. They&#8217;re usually stoners. &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/10/09/the-bechdel-test/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.newyorker.com/humor/2011/10/03/111003sh_shouts_kaling?currentPage=all">This article on women characters in movie</a>s &#8211; skip to the end &#8211; is very funny. I think her Ethereal Weirdo is my favorite, although I will admit to having women like her. They&#8217;re usually stoners. I&#8217;ve always thought of her as the Cortazar <em>Hopscotch</em> fantasy woman, because I dated a guy who actually admitted, out loud, that he fell in love with the woman in that novel when he read it.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>This girl can’t be pinned down and may or may not show up when you make concrete plans with her. She wears gauzy blouses and braids. She likes to dance in the rain and she weeps uncontrollably if she sees a sign for a missing dog or cat. She might spin a globe, place her finger on a random spot, and decide to move there. The Ethereal Weirdo appears a lot in movies, but nowhere else. If she were from real life, people would think she was a homeless woman and would cross the street to avoid her. But she is essential to the male fantasy that even if a guy is boring he deserves a woman who will find him fascinating and perk up his dreary life by forcing him to go skinny-dipping in a stranger’s pool.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>But no post about women in film is complete without Bechdel&#8217;s <em>Test for Women in Movies</em>: </p>
<p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/bLF6sAAMb4s" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p>Some days it&#8217;s hard to come up with any that do pass the test. Help me out, readers?</p>
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		<title>ABC on Trans Couple Story</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/08/18/abc-on-trans-couple-story/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 17:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Somewhere in the last week&#8217;s insanity I did an interview with Susan James of ABCNews.com about a recent article published in the Boston Globe by a journalist whose husband transitioned from male to female. It was &#8230; <a class="more-link" href="http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2011/08/18/abc-on-trans-couple-story/">More<span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Somewhere in the last week&#8217;s insanity I<a href="http://abcnews.go.com/Health/transgender-love-husband-transitions-wife/story?id=14280850"> did an interview with Susan James of ABCNews.com</a> about <a href="http://articles.boston.com/2011-08-09/lifestyle/29868670_1_transgender-rights-transgendered-person-love">a recent article published in the Boston Globe by a journalist whose husband transitioned from male to female. </a></p>
<p>It was a lovely interview, and quite a few things I said I can see reflected in the story (such as the suspicion of the 55% statistic).</p>
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An estimated 45 percent of those surveyed said that their relationship with a spouse or partner ended because of their transgender identity. Surprisingly, 55 percent, stayed on or their relationship ended for other reasons, according to that report.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>But those like Diane who have gone through transition with a loved one, say it is a long and painful process &#8212; and most spouses leave the marriage. </p>
<p>ABC has a few other good clips up as well, <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/Health/transgender-love-husband-transitions-wife/story?id=14280850">so do go check out the article</a>. If you&#8217;re the type, thank James for doing such a good job with the story. She&#8217;s covered trans issues before and really seems to get it. </p>
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