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	<title>Comments on: Labels</title>
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	<description>helen boyd&#039;s journal of gender &#38; trans issues</description>
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		<title>By: Jessica Who</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/06/09/labels/comment-page-1/#comment-64019</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica Who</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 00:41:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Helen hit the nail right on the head, this is a satire of the dangers of labels. People within our community as well as outside our community have a habit of assigning us labels, effectively putting us in a box for their comfort. 

Much of my comedy is character-driven (aka, over the top for effect). I also have a video where I play &quot;Vicki Vegotta&quot; where I give insane cross-dressing tips. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bpw6XNTST_A

As you can see in the video, each label that went on me made me more transparent to the viewer and degraded my identity. I end by placing a label on my mouth (&quot;Jessica&quot;), which drives home the point that labels can silence people from expressing themselves freely.

Gina, I know that electrolysis doesn&#039;t make me TS, but you know what? A good part of society does, and that ridiculous notion is being lampooned by yours truly.

Of course, labels can be a good thing as well if they&#039;re a source of pride. 

Thanks again, Helen, for posting this. I appreciate you sharing my work and I am honored that you found it interesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Helen hit the nail right on the head, this is a satire of the dangers of labels. People within our community as well as outside our community have a habit of assigning us labels, effectively putting us in a box for their comfort. </p>
<p>Much of my comedy is character-driven (aka, over the top for effect). I also have a video where I play &#8220;Vicki Vegotta&#8221; where I give insane cross-dressing tips. <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bpw6XNTST_A" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bpw6XNTST_A</a></p>
<p>As you can see in the video, each label that went on me made me more transparent to the viewer and degraded my identity. I end by placing a label on my mouth (&#8220;Jessica&#8221;), which drives home the point that labels can silence people from expressing themselves freely.</p>
<p>Gina, I know that electrolysis doesn&#8217;t make me TS, but you know what? A good part of society does, and that ridiculous notion is being lampooned by yours truly.</p>
<p>Of course, labels can be a good thing as well if they&#8217;re a source of pride. </p>
<p>Thanks again, Helen, for posting this. I appreciate you sharing my work and I am honored that you found it interesting.</p>
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		<title>By: helenboyd</title>
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		<dc:creator>helenboyd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 16:17:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think Jessica&#039;s point is that other people stick labels on you, too, that aren&#039;t entirely accurate. 

Of course hair removal isn&#039;t medical transition. I don&#039;t think she was saying it is. 

MTF is only directional, in my experience, and can be used to indicate crossdressing as well - as in, an MTF crossdresser vs. an FTM one. That is, I use it for all binary-crossing trans people, whether the change is permanent or not. 

The def of genderqueer is the least understood of them all; I remember a few years ago having someone tell me that no one who is feminine spectrum can be genderqueer, which is ridiculous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think Jessica&#8217;s point is that other people stick labels on you, too, that aren&#8217;t entirely accurate. </p>
<p>Of course hair removal isn&#8217;t medical transition. I don&#8217;t think she was saying it is. </p>
<p>MTF is only directional, in my experience, and can be used to indicate crossdressing as well &#8211; as in, an MTF crossdresser vs. an FTM one. That is, I use it for all binary-crossing trans people, whether the change is permanent or not. </p>
<p>The def of genderqueer is the least understood of them all; I remember a few years ago having someone tell me that no one who is feminine spectrum can be genderqueer, which is ridiculous.</p>
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		<title>By: ginasf</title>
		<link>http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2010/06/09/labels/comment-page-1/#comment-64012</link>
		<dc:creator>ginasf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 15:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While I like the concept of Jessica&#039;s piece, many of the labels she sticks on herself are just wrong and appropriative. Doing hair removal while living as a crossdressing man doesn&#039;t make you transsexual. And even though I&#039;m not a great lover of the term, it doesn&#039;t make you mtf either. While she might be genderfluid on some level she certainly isn&#039;t genderqueer. She said she identifies as a man... therefore, not genderqueer. 

And this to me is one of the issues with the &quot;transgender community&quot;... entitlement (and ease) in appropriating what others have gone through and their identities. Ultimately, when people start talking about how useless labels are, I start thinking about white people who often said, &quot;I don&#039;t care if you&#039;re green, purple or blue... you&#039;re just a person.&quot; Yeah, right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I like the concept of Jessica&#8217;s piece, many of the labels she sticks on herself are just wrong and appropriative. Doing hair removal while living as a crossdressing man doesn&#8217;t make you transsexual. And even though I&#8217;m not a great lover of the term, it doesn&#8217;t make you mtf either. While she might be genderfluid on some level she certainly isn&#8217;t genderqueer. She said she identifies as a man&#8230; therefore, not genderqueer. </p>
<p>And this to me is one of the issues with the &#8220;transgender community&#8221;&#8230; entitlement (and ease) in appropriating what others have gone through and their identities. Ultimately, when people start talking about how useless labels are, I start thinking about white people who often said, &#8220;I don&#8217;t care if you&#8217;re green, purple or blue&#8230; you&#8217;re just a person.&#8221; Yeah, right.</p>
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