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	<title>Comments on: Two Tune Tuesday: St. Julian</title>
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		<title>By: ginasf</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 17:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: ginasf</title>
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		<description>I have to say... I mostly don&#039;t like Kate Bornstein (although I think hir book about suicide was good). Most trans women don&#039;t like Kate Bornstein.

1) Zie uses transsexual as a noun as in &quot;I am a transsexual&quot;, as though transsexual is an ending state in and of itself. If someone wants to say &quot;I am a queer&quot; that&#039;s their own right, but I would rather they say I am queer. I think she regularly belittles the idea that assigned male-bodied transitioners feel they&#039;re women. Yes, some of it is done with humor, but zie uses our identities (not hirs) as a point of humor, and zie does it for mostly queer audiences who already have a lot of issues about acknowledging trans people&#039;s identities (especially transmasculine queer people, who tend to have a lot of issues with transwomen).

2) She claims her big motto is: &quot;Do whatever it takes to make your life more worth living,&quot; she writes, &quot;just don&#039;t be mean.&quot; However, she makes a video like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVprxVvhix4    

It&#039;s about trans women feminizing their voices which is about as mean-spirited as they come. Yes, she&#039;s trying to make a point about gendering and expectations of what womanhood is, but zie ultimately holds trans women&#039;s need for congruity, expression and safety up to ridicule (and, again, in front of audiences whose attitudes towards transwomen are not especially evolved). One has to ask &quot;why did Bornstein get a boob job/facial surgery&quot; if that&#039;s just a social assumption of what womanhood looks like? Why transition at all? To me, expressing myself with a voice which overlaps the category &quot;women&#039;s voices&quot; was as much about congruity as SRS or taking estrogen. Bornstein uses transwomen as objects of ridicule whenever zie wants to make brownie points with hir queer audiences... and that&#039;s just plain mean. Basically, I see her as an exemplar of &quot;tranny face.&quot; Please, no one should use hir as any kind of a spokesperson for trans people.</description>
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<p>1) Zie uses transsexual as a noun as in &#8220;I am a transsexual&#8221;, as though transsexual is an ending state in and of itself. If someone wants to say &#8220;I am a queer&#8221; that&#8217;s their own right, but I would rather they say I am queer. I think she regularly belittles the idea that assigned male-bodied transitioners feel they&#8217;re women. Yes, some of it is done with humor, but zie uses our identities (not hirs) as a point of humor, and zie does it for mostly queer audiences who already have a lot of issues about acknowledging trans people&#8217;s identities (especially transmasculine queer people, who tend to have a lot of issues with transwomen).</p>
<p>2) She claims her big motto is: &#8220;Do whatever it takes to make your life more worth living,&#8221; she writes, &#8220;just don&#8217;t be mean.&#8221; However, she makes a video like this: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVprxVvhix4" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVprxVvhix4</a>    </p>
<p>It&#8217;s about trans women feminizing their voices which is about as mean-spirited as they come. Yes, she&#8217;s trying to make a point about gendering and expectations of what womanhood is, but zie ultimately holds trans women&#8217;s need for congruity, expression and safety up to ridicule (and, again, in front of audiences whose attitudes towards transwomen are not especially evolved). One has to ask &#8220;why did Bornstein get a boob job/facial surgery&#8221; if that&#8217;s just a social assumption of what womanhood looks like? Why transition at all? To me, expressing myself with a voice which overlaps the category &#8220;women&#8217;s voices&#8221; was as much about congruity as SRS or taking estrogen. Bornstein uses transwomen as objects of ridicule whenever zie wants to make brownie points with hir queer audiences&#8230; and that&#8217;s just plain mean. Basically, I see her as an exemplar of &#8220;tranny face.&#8221; Please, no one should use hir as any kind of a spokesperson for trans people.</p>
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