Libidinous Libido

Posted by – December 23, 2009

It’s an ongoing bit of news: women who have no libidos, & how we must “fix” them (instead of, say, acknowledging that some people have little to no interest in sex). That we make a regular variation in libido abnormal & try to fix it is one thing, but when the pharmaceutical companies start looking for a cure…

The fact that so many women have a bitter-sweet relationship to Sex in the City, wishing they were a Samantha or a Carrie, yet feeling so sexually flat, may have less to do with a physiological problem than it does with their hard jobs, their demanding children, or their partner leaving dirty dishes in the sink.

Oh, right! Women & their pesky lives, and problems, and responsibilities. Nutty that should bother them or get in the way of their libidos.

Or, like I said, some people don’t have very high libidos. If it’s so hard for women to admit – who at least have some cultural “permission” not to be horndogs 24/7, I can’t even imagine how many men admit they’d rather live without (much) sex.

2 Comments on Libidinous Libido

  1. thatgalkiki says:

    *applause*

    Well done, sister. Nail on the head.

  2. kiri says:

    There’s an interesting segment on NPR about pharmaceutical companies looking for a cure, even if they have to ‘create’ the condition:

    http://www.npr.org/templates/s.....=121609815

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