Hos and Hookers

You really wonder why, as Americans, we get so hung up on sex, and on sex work. You’d think in an uber-capitalist economy, monetizing fucking would be a good thing, but we get hung up anyway.

I’ve been very pleased while reading Hos, Hookers, Call Girls and Rent Boys that I thought I knew almost nothing about sex work, but some of it is familiar – the substance abuse, the “first time” story happening when the woman in question was 13. But what I didn’t know was how much a 17 year old hustler might not hate having to go down on an 82 year old woman, or how, for an American living in Mexico, sex work could be both dangerous and sweetly naive. The stories in this book are good, even if they occasionally make you wish that really really great writers had done sex work and written about it, but in fact, there are at least a few really remarkably well-written pieces in here, & then a whole bunch of fascinating but proficiently-written stories. There is very little that isn’t good in one way or another (which, imho, could be said about sex itself, too).

Do check it out if you’ve ever had any curiosity about sex work. I’ve never been on either side of a sex-for-money equation but this book’s stories kind of made me wonder why I haven’t.

Book Burning, 2009 Version

A Baptist Church is burning Bibles.

Church leaders deem Good News for Modern Man, the Evidence Bible, the New International Version Bible, the Green Bible and the Message Bible, as well as at least seven other versions of the Bible as “Satan’s Bibles,” according to the website. Attendees will also set fire to “Satan’s popular books” such as the work of “heretics” including the Pope, Mother Teresa, Billy Graham and Rick Warren.

Not to knock the whole of NC as a result, local David Lynch (not that one) said: “it’s a little disconcerting how close this is to my home. They are burning so much stuff I’ve dubbed them the hypocritical Christian Taliban,” Lynch said in a phone interview with Raw Story. “Just the scope of all the information they want to destroy is pretty disturbing.”


Crossdressing Photos

Despite the lack of context or explanation, SF Gate has a nice series of (mostly) rural photos of people who are crossdressed. It’s unclear whether it’s Halloween or some other event, or even if they were taken anywhere near each other, but still, it’s an interesting if not atypical collection of 52 photos. The one pictured is my favorite, as it reminds me of quite a few families I’ve met over the time I’ve been doing research on crossdressing. My guess is that none of these people are crossdressers per se, but of course all I’ve got to go on is the images themselves.

Karl Lagerfield is a PotatoHead

He says women who are upset by models being too thin are just fat ladies who sit on the couch and eat chips. I mean, honestly.

There’s a nice blog post about it by Susan Wagner, who in turn quotes Sherrie Gulmahamad:

This raises a rather dicey question. Do the gay men controlling the fashion world also control the messaging about *our* bodies – and is it wrong, considering gay men aren’t really interested in our bodies in the first place?

Which reiterates an observation that I’ve made more than once: that when I experience misogyny spoken by a gay man, it’s often far more offensive than the misogyny I hear from straight men. Not always by much, but straight guys, usually, mostly, kinda, like to have sex with our bodies, whether or not they consider us human and people & all that.

But I shudder to think about all of us modeling our looks after Mr. Lagerfeld, who looks like death warmed over – and warmed by those hot lamps they use to keep the fries hot at McDonald’s. Eeek.

Two Tune Tuesday: Gendery Songs


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I think the Franz Ferdinand is one of the sexiest songs I’ve heard lately – you know you know you know you’re so sweetly is delivered with a lovely rasp – and Cherry Lips is the classic straight grrl appreciation of MTF fabulousness. Enjoy.

Snow

Since many of you have asked when exactly it starts snowing here in Appleton, here’s your answer: today.