Sex Stuff I Mentioned at TransOhio

Posted by – August 20, 2009

First, there’s that porn flick How to Fuck in High Heels.

Then, there’s the all-kink inclusive summer camp we’ve been to called Dark Odyssey, which is taking place from 9/16-21 in a campgrounds in Maryland (although sadly, we can’t make it this year).

& Here’s two I didn’t mention (at least not by name):

I really like this Spare Parts harness.

& I mentioned not too long ago that I’m a big fan of this silver bullet vibrator.

4 Comments on Sex Stuff I Mentioned at TransOhio

  1. carasande says:

    I really liked this session at Transohio. I hope that you post the text for it, I’d really like to look at everything you said there again.

  2. helenboyd says:

    I’m so sorry I don’t have that text – I’ve been doing that talk a long while now, & only work from a list of words, to be honest.

    If you have any question, ask away – I’ll be happy to answer (if I can).

  3. carasande says:

    It’s not so much that I have a specific question, I just felt a little sparked by a lot of the things you said there in paticular.

    It reminded of when I was a kid and I sort of searched around for examples that reflected my trans feelings.

    But now – I guess I’m mostly thinking about how roles and identity were broadening and changing, but how if you identify yourself outside the cultural norm that it often becomes very hard to see yourself or your feelings anywhere. How To Fuck In High Heels was was an awesome example (I’m also now reminded of the Kate Bornstien review of Walle a bit too). I guess, I’m just interested in thinking about that some more and was hoping that I might have a little reading material to follow along with for a bit while I think.

    thanks for replying back and for making it to Ohio this weekend. Hope you’ll come back sometime.

  4. helenboyd says:

    It’s tricky – we found so few.
    I do have a “Trans Couples” series up on my blog (if you use those search words, you’ll find couples) but even then there isn’t much about sex.
    Some of what Morty Diamond does covers this stuff, too. &
    There’s a collection of trans erotica edited by Hanne Blank,
    & a book of crossdressing erotica edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel.
    Bear Bergman is writing about hir new relationship in the upcoming book & that comments on sex roles & relationships (as does Butch Is A Noun).

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