Dick Don Rumsfeld

WaMo has an article about Rumsfield & Katrina that won’t surprise anyone who was paying attention. What it does, however, is point up exactly how much of a f***head he was. After the president had returned to the White House,… Continue Reading

NYS Needs GENDA (& Your Help)

NY residents: Sign up for the STATEWIDE CALL-IN DAY FOR TRANSGENDER EQUALITY: We need your help pass the Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA), a bill that would make it illegal in New York State to fire someone, evict them, or… Continue Reading

France Depathologizes Transsexualism

Saturday’s edition of the French language newspaper Le Provence headline: Transsexuality will no longer be classified mental illness in France and the article explains why France has now become the first country to depathologize transsexualism. English translation is now online.… Continue Reading

Int’l Day Against Homophobia

It’s the International Day Against Homophobia, a campaign that tries to enlighten people to the fact that LGBT people are not just white or Western and that in fact, there are LGBT people of every race, color, and creed.

NYS Same Sex Senate Vote

Fivethirtyeight.com has done a breakdown of the possible same sex marriage vote for the NY Senate. Basically, there are probably 20 definites, & then a bunch of solid Nos, & then a bunch of undecideds. If your rep is on… Continue Reading


When you come home & you get to see this first thing, life just seems a little less sucky.

Air America Podcast

In case you missed it.

Air America Interview

Welcome to any listeners from Air America who are popping over here after my interview on Nicole Sandler’s show. Here’s a link to the article by Jenny Boylan from the NYT. I’d like to reiterate that the trans community, for… Continue Reading


The article itself is kind of teh suck, but the comments are interesting. A young boy who acts in a feminine way isn’t a faggot; he’s a sissy. Still, it’s interesting to see a conversation about male genders from another… Continue Reading

Air America Live

I’ll be on Air America Live tomorrow, 12:15 PM EST, talking about my unusual marriage, & yes, there is a live feed. (Thanks to Jenny Boylan for the opportunity!)

The Big 40

Well then. Honestly, what do you say? My parents and my siblings must feel *really* old today, since I’m the youngest of the family. But as my dad always said, it’s not like the only other option is any good,… Continue Reading

Two Tune Tuesday: Boys With Pretty Voices

Recent Interview

While I was in Milwaukee, I did an interview for a local paper and entirely forgot to mention it. It’s a little more recent then a million others I’ve done, so it might answer some questions about what the hell… Continue Reading


It’s damned pathetic that same sex marriage isn’t a done deal in NYS yet, but senators are still waffling? Get with the program, folks. You’re on the wrong side of history. (via Queerty)

PSA for the Gay in Singapore

I liked it.

Moms Like Hir

Nice interview with a genderqueer mom on Bilerico today.

Happy Moms Day

A very happy mother’s day to all the mothers out there – male, female, or otherwise. & To our own two, of course. As May babies, we have always shared the week with our moms, and sometimes even the day… Continue Reading

Turning 40

In a few days, we’ll turn 40. People have asked if there’s anything in particular we want, which is sweet. So here’s the list: Betty needs a job, or more clients. You can always make a donation to help us… Continue Reading

SF: GID Protest 5/18/09

Ashley Altadonna

When we were in Milwaukee, we were interviewed for a documentary called Making the Cut. I’m told Julia Serano was, too, when she was there recently as well. The film is being made by a young woman who is trying… Continue Reading