Comments on: Partner’s Take http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2007/08/23/partners-take/ helen boyd's journal of gender & trans issues Wed, 08 Feb 2012 01:17:33 -0500 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: marci http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2007/08/23/partners-take/comment-page-1/#comment-33966 marci Thu, 23 Aug 2007 22:54:38 +0000 http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/?p=1619#comment-33966 Of course it's the body you love, first and foremost because you're probably a red-blooded heterosexual. Married MTF's have an annoying obsession with not only expecting their wives to "understand" but to become homosexual at the same time, as if its something a wife could just flip a switch and become. And let's face it, very few MTF's--like the female population in general--are sexy enough to turn a hetero girl to homo (as I've heard Shania Twain can do!). It's a wonder why any wife would choose to put up with it, especially if they are sacrificing a major part of their sex life--and I mean the kind that only comes from the incomparable thrill of being f****d really good by some manly stud. Of course it’s the body you love, first and foremost because you’re probably a red-blooded heterosexual. Married MTF’s have an annoying obsession with not only expecting their wives to “understand” but to become homosexual at the same time, as if its something a wife could just flip a switch and become. And let’s face it, very few MTF’s–like the female population in general–are sexy enough to turn a hetero girl to homo (as I’ve heard Shania Twain can do!).

It’s a wonder why any wife would choose to put up with it, especially if they are sacrificing a major part of their sex life–and I mean the kind that only comes from the incomparable thrill of being f****d really good by some manly stud.

]]> By: lizzy http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2007/08/23/partners-take/comment-page-1/#comment-33965 lizzy Thu, 23 Aug 2007 21:44:27 +0000 http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/?p=1619#comment-33965 even if our husbands hate there male body's, in most cases that's the body we love. I don't want a prince/princess. even if our husbands hate there male body’s, in most cases that’s the body we love.
I don’t want a prince/princess.

]]> By: VivaZoya http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2007/08/23/partners-take/comment-page-1/#comment-33952 VivaZoya Thu, 23 Aug 2007 19:05:01 +0000 http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/?p=1619#comment-33952 Whoa. Whoa.

]]> By: Adrien http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/2007/08/23/partners-take/comment-page-1/#comment-33949 Adrien Thu, 23 Aug 2007 17:03:39 +0000 http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/?p=1619#comment-33949 That is so profound to me. Because we DO see our prior incarnations as our "beast" selves - unlovely and unworthy, since we have such bad feelings about our own bodies and looks. And when we start making that transition, we do start seeing a prince in the mirror for the first time. Since it is so hard, if even possible, for us to be in love with our natal gendered selves, it is almost impossible to imagine that anyone else could be too. This is very poignant and insightful I think, Ana. That is so profound to me. Because we DO see our prior incarnations as our “beast” selves – unlovely and unworthy, since we have such bad feelings about our own bodies and looks. And when we start making that transition, we do start seeing a prince in the mirror for the first time. Since it is so hard, if even possible, for us to be in love with our natal gendered selves, it is almost impossible to imagine that anyone else could be too. This is very poignant and insightful I think, Ana.

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