Shapes, Not Lines

Posted by – July 8, 2007

The question of whether or not gender is on a continuum or not comes up an awful lot in trans conversation, and I’ve always been of the opinion that it does. Others don’t necessarily agree.

But for me, having been a masculine woman in straight culture (which does not recognize masculine genders in women in other than pathologizing ways) & in lesbian culture (which recognizes quite a few masculine genders expressed by women), I’d say that the points inbetween genders can *absolutely* indicate something meaningful.

It’s an easy idea to dismiss if you live in a world that doesn’t actually recognize any of the points along the spectrum, but once you’ve experienced what it feels like to be taken seriously as whatever form of gender variant you are, to not feel pathologized or having failed at “being” one gender or the other, & in fact are appreciated for existing, that’s a whole different thing entirely.

I would have lost my mind if I hadn’t found lesbian culture at certain times in my life. & Likewise, femme lesbians have been some of the only women who helped me understand & appreciate femininity exactly because of the way they queer it, which in turn lead me to a level of self-acceptance I might not have found otherwise.

When I lecture on the subject of gender variance, I’m usually speaking to a room full of people. I ask them to think of the room we’re all standing in as the gender continuum. The way i postulate it, “gender normatives” are at one end (usually near the exit doors, opposite from where i’m standing, with Masculine to the left of those doors, and Feminine to the right), with the fully androgynous at the other pole (where I’m standing). then I ask people where they would be standing, where they might place the person next to them, etc. because in almost any room i’ve ever been in you get a pretty full range of gender expression, even if we like to pretend otherwise.

The assumption that those of us who like to refer to a “continuum” or “spectrum” of gender are actually referring to a straight line with “man” on one end and “woman” on the other is needlessly binarized to start with. I think of gender much more as a circle, or maybe a triangle, with gender normative on one end & androgynous on the other side, directly across from gender normative masculine & feminine.

Though of course I expect someone to tell me now that it’s very feminine to visualize things in circles or triangles instead of straight lines in the first place.

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  1. Diane Frank says:

    Well, actually it’s a Reimannian manifold in 5 dimensional hyperspace…and that’s about as queer as you can get…well except for 17 dimensional string theory. But it shows to go you, I just unexpectedly solved a nasty plumbing problem where the least effort route between two points turned out to be a straight line…didn’t need a polar route or a diversion into hyperspace at all!

    Diane

  2. Diane Frank says:

    oh…and that manifold? It’s infinitely differentiable-

    Diane

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  4. danatgirl666 says:

    In looking back at my own thoughts about the subject, I have often used the imagery of a straight-line gender continuum limited by the male-female bookends, but your post has shown me the error of my ways! Now I’m thinking, off the top of my head, of gender as one big circle with 2 smaller, intersecting circles enclosed within it (crude image: http://danatgirl666.blogspot.c.....nder.html).

    The larger, encompassing circle represents the characteristics that make us all human – in other words anything not explicitly thought of as male or female and in the widest sense, “androgyne” or “agendered” or “nongendered” (or any of many other possible labels people wish to use). The circles within this are the traditional but always evolving and interacting definitions of “female” and “male” (or insert whatever gender labels that you want there). These represent the socially dominant physical and cultural understandings of these labels, and of course the shape these definitions take change over time and space (across geographies, cultures, nations, etc.).

    If you feel the need to reject the binary gender model entirely (count me in that group!) place yourself anywhere within the larger circle. If you aren’t comfortable throwing out tradition entirely, put yourelf somewhere within the two smaller circles, or in their intersection. The image I’m conjuring is reminiscent of telophase of cell mitosis (http://project.bio.iastate.edu.....itosis.jpg) within an organism (but then again, I am certainly not a biologist so I may be way off here)?!!