Dark Odyssey’d (#2)

Still – when Tristan Taormino tells Nina Hartley to check out your rack, and then Nina Hartley tells Betty she looks like Hillary Swank in her formal wear, life is good. Continue Reading

Friday Cat Blog

Our eunuchs, Aeneas and Endymion:

Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire

a weekend of kink at the first ever winter Dark Odyssey Continue Reading

Victoria’s Dirty Secret

And it is not very sexy to know that Victoria’s Secret catalogs contain paper made from the endangered forests of the Canadian Boreal, one of the largest wilderness areas in the world Continue Reading

Pic from the Glitz

(thanks to Amanda for sending it!)

Boycotted in Phoenix?

She came into my workshop a little late, and just as I was about to end the session, she asked loudly, “So why do some people hate you?” or some version thereof. Maybe it was “Why doesn’t Tri-Ess like you?” Continue Reading

Glitz Speech

Our trip to Phoenix and the Glitz was a little nutty thanks to the usual trans community in-fighting. I’d written this speech about partners and family, but when I got there I realized an entirely different speech was needed. So… Continue Reading

Off to the Glitz

We’re off for Phoenix tomorrow and the Glitz Ball. Continue Reading

Why Men Wear Frocks on BBC4

a documentary called Why Men Wear Frocks. Continue Reading

Woman magazine

However, she did manage to get a UK magazine called Woman to run it instead. Continue Reading

SAMHSA Stonewall

Likewise, any mention of “gender identity” was removed from the workshop’s description (although “sexual orientation” was allowed to remain). Continue Reading

The Glitz Ball

I’ll be presenting a workshop on Saturday at 1:15, as well as giving the Banquet Speech later that evening. Continue Reading

So… yeah.

So, on this lonely weekend when half of the world is taking time out to make love, I’m supposed to write more of a trans-erotic story that my own lovely tranny couldn’t get off to, for the sake of all you, whoever you are, out there. Continue Reading

Femme Fever Ball

Karen of Femme Fever, who has been doing a lot great work with the trans community for the past 10 years… Continue Reading

Protest or Support?

So here, without further ado, are a few of the book award nominees for the Lambda Lit Award: Continue Reading

Donations – and a Gift

I’m offering a little gift for this month’s donors: a CD (the musical kind) of love songs to celebrate Valentine’s Day with. Continue Reading

Judge Strikes Down NY Ban on Gay Marriage

State Supreme Court Justice Doris Ling-Cohan ruled that the words “husband,” “wife,” “groom” and “bride” in relevant sections of the Domestic Relations Law “shall be construed to mean ‘spouse,”‘ and “all personal pronouns … shall be construed to apply equally to either men or women.” Continue Reading

Queer Stories for Boys

Queer Stories for Boys reminds us of the people behind the political diatribes, and does so with elegance, wit, sadness and joy. Continue Reading